Cethin

Pretty much. The state has a monopoly on violence. They can threaten you, and use force, as much as they want. If you do the same, and they don’t like it, that’s terrorism.

I agree, but I also think some grace should be given to allow people to break old habits and build new ones. I don’t think this alone should be the deciding factor, if they agree to work on it. It may be the final straw though.

For me personally, I yell far easier than I’d like when arguing. It’s something I learned from my parents. I know it’s bad, but it still happens sometimes. I do it less frequently than I used to at least. Maybe someday it’ll be near zero…

This was so hard to parse, especially since it’s led by another negative! I knew what it must be saying, but it took so many reads over to actually know it said that thing.

For other readers, assuming I got it right (pretty sure I did), they’re fine with consensual non-consent (CNC). AKA, they’re against the non-consent that’s not CNC, if you want to word it like a crazy person. Lol.