• 4am@lemmy.zip
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    20 hours ago

    Not to be too ableist, but there is a lot of autism and/or ADHD in nerdy subcultures and many times self-care gets neglected due to hyperfocus, distraction, or any other deregulation of executive function.

    A lot of times you just need to feel like you belong somewhere so you can trust that people will treat you like another person.

    I’d imagine the Venn diagram of mistreated people, people on the spectrum, and Juggalos has a profound overlap.

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      18 hours ago

      I treat other people like people by taking a shower before I go to a local game store or other enclosed space where we’re forced to be together for a few hours. I’m sorry for people who struggle with it but I don’t accept ableism arguments for these situations. Are folks literally unable, or just not prioritizing the community when they make decisions? I think it’s the latter.