• DonutsRMeh@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Having kids (one of whom is special needs) plucked me out of the nihilism well that I was drowning in. I’m so thankful for them. Now, I don’t even have time to think or contemplate life. lol

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      1 month ago

      If you accept that caring for the wellbeing of your kids is inherently meaningful then you must also accept there is meaning inherent in taking care of your own self :3

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        1 month ago

        only while the kids exist as you forced them into existence thereby incurring the responsibility

        for a thought experiment, imagine you could see your entire life and decide to be born or not based in your mind at the point of death

        what would be the point of living a ‘bad’ life?

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          I would personally have chosen No, and it’s a big reason why I’m not going to have a kid. Very grateful that my wife agrees

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      1 month ago

      Nihilists can have, and love and care for, children.

      It’s all about making your own meaning, and I imagine having kids is one way a lot of people do that.

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      I’m sure they’ll be grateful for their chance to pick between being a soldier in the Water Wars, or maybe getting lucky enough to find a human job that pays in food and living accommodations.

      Sorry to be that nihilist but I am so grateful for finding a partner that agrees that reproduction is wildly irresponsible to both the world, and that future being who you KNOW and cannot deny that existence will likely be worse for in basically the first time in human existence outside of the world wars and the Black Death.

      If I were forced to switch places with a child today I would be pretty upset about the future I had been subject too. But they’re just so cute right? And all my friends are having them too!

      Downvote away!

      • DonutsRMeh@lemmy.world
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        1 month ago

        What you’re saying sounds more like doomerism to me than it is nihilism. It’ll get better. Hang in there ❤️

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        1 month ago

        You’re the absolute worst and completely useless. Fuck off with your bullshit opinions and grow the fuck up.

        • JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca
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          1 month ago

          Could you maybe put some effort into your response, explaining why you so strongly disagree with an opinion I’ve developed over a pretty long time? Because you’re the one that looks childish responding so emotionally