I don’t really think about it much. I’d say no, but I’m not a bad person either. I am willing to sacrifice my own interests for people I care about, but not for strangers. I’m kind to people, but I am not nice. I will encourage people to reconsider harmful behaviors, but enable them if they decide not to change. I have ghosted dozens of people for sometimes not very good reasons. I aspire to leave the world better than I’ve found it, but have spent my career making it worse.
I don’t really think about it much. I’d say no, but I’m not a bad person either. I am willing to sacrifice my own interests for people I care about, but not for strangers. I’m kind to people, but I am not nice. I will encourage people to reconsider harmful behaviors, but enable them if they decide not to change. I have ghosted dozens of people for sometimes not very good reasons. I aspire to leave the world better than I’ve found it, but have spent my career making it worse.