• RebekahWSD@lemmy.world
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    15 days ago

    I’m fat and usually wearing a mask so even if my face is nice the fat overrides it and one thing I find annoying is if I compliment men they will always immediately look me up and down, write me off, and then be pissed I complimented them because they don’t want to fuck me. “…thaaanks” they go. Like it’s an insult my fat ass complimented them. Women just appreciate my compliments (there’s been a few who didn’t but it’s much much muuuuch rarer). Let me fucking compliment your watch without thinking I’m hitting on you you dingus!!!

    • AA5B@lemmy.world
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      14 days ago

      Or could they be looking for what you want? A lot of us almost never get compliments so our first thought is what do you want from me.

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        13 days ago

        seriously. the only time strange women ever approach me and compliment me it’s to sell me something.

        usually it’s to ask me to join their church/cult.

    • A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world
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      14 days ago

      You sure they werent just looking for cameras?

      Cause any time a woman approaches me in public (which isnt very often, before i sound like some bragging fool), especially if its to say something nice/complimentary, my immediate thought is someones trying to record my reaction to put on some tiktok bullshit video.

      I dont even register their appearance, I just quickly look for the Camera, mutter something quietly, and get the fuck away as quick as I can.

      Not tryin to say assholes don’t exist, there is an overabundance of assholes in the world afterall.

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      13 days ago

      Men so starved for positive attention they think a compliment from a random girl means they want to hook up