• Demdaru@lemmy.world
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    9 days ago

    I am like this and I am not sure if I am broken or what. Shit staying the way it is is 100% fine for me - as long as it’s practical, idc. But my partner needs to shake things up every once in a while or she feels bad. x_x

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      7 days ago

      you’re not broken. don’t let other people bully you into becoming superficial and caring about what color the curtains are. you just focus on the essential, that’s fine.

    • yermaw@sh.itjust.works
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      9 days ago

      I’m glad they’re like that. My place was literally pic related until she showed up.

      Place looks the same to me now, functionally, but also its a “home” too now, so thats nice.

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        9 days ago

        Mine was post-soviet flat. It’s still mostly is as we are poor as shit, but she rearranged furniture at least 5 times since she moved in xD

    • Malica@lemmy.zip
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      9 days ago

      I have ADHD and I need to change my environment occasionally to tame the ADHD demon. Maybe she does too.

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        9 days ago

        Possibly. She’s defo on spectrum. Both diagnosed by the prof. S. Jonal (me) and actual profesionals. Fun to know it’s tied to that.