Discussing politics and other contentious sunjects online feels to me like it’s counterproductive these days and even though I try not to get suckered in, I often can’t help myself. Usually though I just end up feeling frustrated and sometimes angry at the other person either missing my points or refusing to accept them.
Thinking back to conversations I’ve had here and previously on Reddit, not only can I not remember an example of me “winning” the discussion and the other person changing their mind or conceding the point, I also cannot think of a time where my mind was changed either.
So have you ever begun a discussion online with someone with a different view point to yours and either you, or they, changed the others mind?
In his book Synergetics , Buckminster Fuller points out (don’t have the exact quote) that you almost never hear a politician say, “you know, the evidence and logic of the other side are now overwhelmingly persuasive; I must change my political affiliation” – but among scientists, you hear the equivalent all the time.
Back before Newt Gingrich, Jerry Falwell, and Ronald Reagan pushed the GOP to the extreme Right, politicians voting against their party wasn’t seen as harmful or unusual.