• eestileib@sh.itjust.works
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      7 days ago

      So do I and in that context specifically a guy coming up and only talking about my boobs and how nice they are is a totally acceptable way to start a conversation.

      He only cares about one body part? That’s literally the kind of itch a party like that is supposed to let you scratch.

      He’d still need to learn basic etiquette, but that would change him from a guy pretending to like a person when he just likes her boobs to a guy just liking someone’s boobs. He’s much less likely to leave people feeling deceived in that context.

      Or he can just give a couple hundred every month to a girl in a topless bar, that’s also a relationship where nobody feels deceived and might be the right level for his social skills, I dunno.

      • Cris_Citrus (he/him <3)@piefed.zip
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        7 days ago

        Yeah, I think thats totally fair if he still learns etiquette and has a desire to see how and where his engaging in the way he’d like to is welcome. I’m just not seeing that much in the way the commenter described him 😅

        But maybe a venue where there’s room and invitation to participate in his preferred mode of interaction would open things up a bit more 🤷🏻‍♂️