For example I was chatting with a guy at Folsom when I had my tits out for public use and he said “you know I’m gay and have never actually felt boobs, I’m kind of curious. Women’s bodies are fascinating, like cephalopods.”

So I said “sure go for it” and he examined it without any sexual energy or intent to arouse me at all, to satisfy his curiosity. And he said “thanks, that was really interesting”. It was fun (thankfully he refrained from comparing how I feel to a cephalopod).

If somebody is being an asshole, or trying to hurt or degrade me, then obviously I wouldn’t enjoy that. But in general, yeah at a play party I like it when people pay attention to my boobs.

This is very situational. Most days I wear a sports bra and don’t show cleavage, if someone came to to me on the bus and grabbed my boob they’d get an elbow for starters.