Once the nervous sweat fully saturates the mattress, which usually takes a year, you are cleared to sleep.

new relationship you arnt use to sleeping with someone else. They get in the way, you get too hot and your never comfy. After a while you get use to it and you could be in a fucking yoga postion and it doesnt matter.

Same thing happens if you get a new cat or dog and it sleeps on your bed. sleeping is awkward at the best of times.

The first few nights sleeping together are overall harder as you haven’t found the sweetspots for both to sleep comfortably