And two years later she never wanted to get better, just FEEL better, and you’ve been working alone all along, too busy trying to make everything better to notice that you’re changing but she isn’t. At all.

Have hit several rough patches with my husband over the years - including a big one very recently. We were both at a point where divorce seemed to be the easiest option. In the end, we both realized we didn’t want that and committed to continue working on ourselves and our relationship. Since then, things have been feeling better than ever between us.

There’s nothing like going through a seemingly impossible situation and both truly choosing to figure it out and stay together. Strengthens the bond and the love.

The thing almost no-one talks about, the fact that relationships take work and both parties have to want the relationship.