These two words are typically used interchangeably. So, curious to hear how/if you differentiate them. Also, just a general thread about kinks you have, why you think you have them and if you’d consider yourself “kinky”.
These two words are typically used interchangeably. So, curious to hear how/if you differentiate them. Also, just a general thread about kinks you have, why you think you have them and if you’d consider yourself “kinky”.
Oof, that’s unfortunate x_x I don’t understand why someone would want to get physical with a potential partner without knowing details like that, or having some kind of internal struggle with themselves that masks the symptoms. I’m cis + gay but I guess I can benefit from being shy/timid and demi, as I haven’t had such an experience.
For those that I catch feelings for though, I don’t mind a needy partner to ‘use’ me, often. Ofc I want typical relationship things too (I get super clingy and attached, and I need validation often because of the whole disabled + self-image situation), but having dated a couple really needy guys, it doesn’t bother me. Although there’s not many kinks that I’m not into, so things never really get typical or boring, so that helps keep things exciting.