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Cake day: February 12th, 2025

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  • The truth is most if us wouldn’t dare do anything remotely inappropriate based solely upon the assumption that hints were dropped. Those who initiate sexual contact based solely on this assumption are rapists.

    This exactly! I have probably missed a lot of opportunities, but my now wife gave me mad probs when I explained to her why I sometimes (very early in our relationship) could come of dense/dismissive, as she earlier in life fell victim to a guy “who was just playing the game” but in fact was a massive asshole and probably a rapist.