ferret

I haven’t used tailscale in a while, but afaik no, it’s strictly p2p besides their NAT punching hardware and (heavily throttled) backup relay servers.

Can always use your own tunnel, like wireguard or even just SSH. You are then responsible for where the tunnel terminates, of course.

Having to manually start and stop your VMs is very atypical, proxmox can absolutely handle that itself

Anything goes

Fedi is also mastodon, and many others

Honestly I didn’t expect them to flag non-native speakers. LLMs don’t often make gramatical mistakes (or at least not ones your average joe could identify)