• 0 Posts
  • 2 Comments
Joined 1 year ago
cake
Cake day: June 5th, 2025

help-circle
  • It just seems like the shrine itself doesn’t really treat it with reverence so dumb tourist behavior is kind of to be expected.

    That’s certainly not what I took away from the bit you quoted. I read it more as “Since acceptable attitudes aren’t limited to the super solemn, dour ones common in Western churches and holy sites, you can understand somewhat how foreigners might not understand where exactly the limit is in acceptable behavior, but this is definitely past it, so don’t do it.”

    Your very statement about them not treating the site with reverence reveals the crux of your misunderstanding. You keep considering this situation with your norms, by which the shrine’s staff fall short of their duties, ergo they’re not being reverent. The whole point of the article is that, while standards for behavior and attitude at holy sites in Japan do permit a wider range of expressions than is common in the West, it doesn’t mean you have carte blanche to act as you please, and while Japanese people will overlook gaffs relating to the finer points of their etiquette, this is too grave a faux pas and risks significant consequences as concerns Japan’s attitude towards foreign tourists in the future.


  • If you have time still, it can be good to just go over all the projects you’ve worked on and just give yourself a quick summary of what you did on them, and if there are any concrete examples of ways you contributed to them. It can make things easier for you to sell yourself in interviews afterwards, but it’s one of those things that we often don’t think of until we’ve already lost the job and no longer have access to the files we would need to reference to put it together.

    Aside from that, there are some big questions on the financial side of things, if you happen to be based in the US. Do you qualify for severance, and if so, how long will it be? If you get it, will you also have access to your medical insurance during this period, or will you have to consider COBRA coverage? If you are based in the states, then this should like serve as a qualifying event to let you register with your state health marketplace and sign up for subsidized insurance there, which will likely be much cheaper than COBRA coverage long term. However, if you do get severance, you may have to wait until your severance period ends.

    Also, take care of yourself. It’s never fun going through a layoff, happened to me about 2 years ago. Finances permitting, give yourself a few days or a week to just get yourself together and decompress, then start bombing out applications and looking for something else. I like to try and give myself a target date, that way I can take a bit of a breather, but I’ve got a hard deadline on it so I don’t let things drag on too long and just waste my time and make things even worse for myself in the long run.