Extrapolating hobbies and sexual turn ons from spying on someone’s underwear is indeed pretty creepy
I don’t understand how you propose fixes for cases like this. Like the thought-process is so alien, I don’t even know where to start fixing these people, except to head back to toddler instructions on personal space and communication.
Middle and high school are full of stupid misconceptions about girls. In my middle school, people believed that if you wore black panties, it meant you’re DTF. The boys also thought that if a girl’s nipples were hard, it meant she was turned on. No amount of saying, “Bruh, it’s just winter,” or asking why boys’ nipples don’t get hard when they’re horny, would change their minds.
It all really boils down to - some boys will grasp at anything to confirm their belief that a girl is interested in sex.
Black panties mean she’s discovered that her period won’t stain them
Yeah but isn’t like this exact thing what big tech is doing?
That’s because all the big tech CEOs are all exactly like the green text OP.
I can’t tell if this is real, but I can’t fathom how you could make it up
"it must be true because, if it were not true, no one would have had the imagination to invent it” - fancy math man
“Creepy landscape boy” feels made up. Children are way more imaginative, especially when it comes to derogatory nicknames.
No “Horny Hill Henry”, “Masturbatin’ mountain mike”, “Lickin’ Lakes Liam”, …?
Yeah, and teenagers have even more derogatory imagination than children. Really depends on the grade.
Sounds like a thing girls would come up with, tbh.
My highschool girlfriend used to call a guy “the creeper”.
I dated a guy in college whom I (affectionately) referred to as “the caveman,” because he had a really prominent brow. My (unaffectionate) nickname in high school was “sleepy,” because I fell asleep in class once, and that was made up by boys.
I think most nicknames are a little unimaginative.
Kids aren’t reinventing the wheel.
One thing i can vouch for. During HS in early 2000’s, girls would wear thongs and low waist jeans exposing their junk when leaning forward. Sounds good on paper but when youre not rly interested in them and forced to see it its meh.
How are you forced to see it? Just don’t look at it?
I got stuck on there being a correlation between class and color worn. If accurate, my best guess is a correlation between Laundry Day and Geography Class. That is, she ran out of undies she liked by that day of week, so dipped into her disfavored clothes stash.
I believe the first half of this story
Anon wasn’t a creep because of the landscape shirt. Anon was a creep who wore a landscape shirt.
Of all the things that didn’t happen, this didn’t happen the most
I mean yes, creepy boy… but not for the reasons she thought
Im pretty sure either she saw him doing the creeeping orr he told her his creepy hypothesis. And THATS where she gets the term from…
Or she saw him peeking at her panties everyday
OP was not allowed to teach at the school again.
OP learned that day the difference between correlation and causation.
It actually sounds to me like they didn’t learn anything
OP learned that day that you dedinitely should not be spying on a person’s panties lol ewww wtf?!
Sounds like her panties were public knowledge but generally yeah don’t be gooning that hard.
Moral of the story: be yourself not something you think somebody wants.
I learned that lesson a long time ago.
be yourself
But I’m not like that.
I didn’t learn this until my late 20s and that was really too late. It’s weird once you realize you haven’t been yourself for years, and when you start to try to be, it’s like meeting a long lost friend again.
be yourself
Maybe don’t be a guy who catalogues his classmates’ underwear colors.
Next green text story incoming:
Me: tried being myself
Her: ew
Meh, happens sometimes
Well yeah of course. Lots of people may not like the real you. You just need to find one. Well unless she’s a cheating bitch and then you need two. Er… I mean … never mind. 😂
but the sad truth is that there is the likely possibility that NOBODY will ever like you despite how loyal or peaceful or kind or handsome you are.
THATS what makes dating one of the shittiest games to play.
You can do everything right and every single person you want to date can still want to hang you despite you not saying or doign a mean thing to them.
You can do everything wrong like pinochet, reza shah, mobuto, joe biden, kamala harris, suharto , pol pot, benjamin mileikowsky, adolph shitler, queen victoria, idi amin, etc… and people will build statues in your honiur AND wanna have your babies…wait… ALL the people I just mentioned all had spouses AND children! loool.
The same can be said for making friends too I have also found. People have told me they either wont date me or either wont befriend me…because the biggest sin Ive committed , in their words, was I am Black…
Enjoy those shitty, lonely games , comrades lol 😉🫡💔😏🤭
Maybe try to avoid this defeatist way of thinking? It hard, sure, not trying to downplay the harsh reality of dating, but giving up will not help you find a partner.
It’s like giving up on life because you can accidentally die tomorrow.
At least, meet new people, not trying to date anyone and maybe make friends. Maybe and maybe with some time, one of this new friend will become a lover? Worst case scenario you got more friends. Maybe they have friends themselves and you can meet new people?
Forget about loyalty, peacefulness, kindness or handsomeness like they are traits in a video game. A mid girl can become you crush by the way they talk to you about their experience of something you share. Try to be the best human being you can become. It’s a lifelong journey. Meet people to expand your perspective. Try sometime to get out of your comfort zone. But also be kind to yourself, allow time to heal from pain and hardship. Allow yourself to cry, it “reset” your nervous system and process an emotional event.
As for your awful experience of racism, I’m sorry you had to go though that. But don’t forget that you dodge a massive bullet. How would you have like living with someone who devalue you for your skin color?
Sorry if I sound preachy, I hope you get my message and good intentions. A friend of mine followed for most of his life this “love is not for me” mentality and now regret this choice and is trying his best to live his life fully.
In the end, it’s your choice, feel free to ignore everything I just said off course. Whatever your choices, good luck, I wish you the best 🫶
Also umm this:
Forget about loyalty, peacefulness, kindness or handsomeness like they are traits in a video game.
I feel like peopele should stop lying to themselves when they say these traits are not imoortant for meeting a monogamous partner. You partner will definitely care about how loyal to them you are if you two are monogamously involved. You oartner will likely care about how kind you are to them and others - heck there are some people who have mental illnesses that make it so thst they like unkind and abusive people MORE. And your oartner will DEFINITELY care about how you look or how ‘beautiful’ or ‘handsome’ you are . There is undeniably a ‘physical aspect’ to a person’s attraction towards you in a monogamous relationship. Would anyone here stay married to a partner who has deliberately let their health go to the point that they belong on ‘My 700 Pound Life’ ? Would anyone here stay with someone who has had so much plastic surgeries that that partner crossed past the Uncanny Valley a looomg time ago? …didnt think so.
Some people, especially 4chan people, should not be themselves if they want a relationship they don’t have to pay an hourly rate for.
I dont think its not thst they shouldnt be themselves its rather that people like the OP, if they exist, should change themselves to be more respecting of tihers’ private spaces or OP just has not matured to the point that they know thenselves.
A person who is secure in themeelves will never spy on a person’s panties and ‘correlate it to their supposed horniness’…
I respect that. He had a theory and tested it out. It was wildly wrong (and yes, I know it’s most likely fake), but at least he went and tried.
the growth of science rests on the back of failure
Meanwhile I got the nickname Kraut because I gassed myself at home cleaning the bathroom and just kinda kept going with a makeshift gas mask. My friends were over at the time and witnessed me throw together a whole getup because I was not dealing with that shit later.
What, ammonia + chlorine?
Yeah. Though not intentionally, apparently the bleach left a bit of residue in the bucket I was using so when I put the other cleaning product in for a different thing it had ammonia and I got gassed.
Op on the tism
