• sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz
    8·
    20 days ago

    It comes from watching the most niche of porn categories:

    Consenting adults of no familial relation and no overt power dynamic. Completely depraved shit, you can’t find it anywhere anymore

  • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world
    1·
    20 days ago
    CW for mention of rape

    I actually knew a guy in an anime fangroup, who had a rape fetish so bad, that he couldn’t stop complaining about NSFW artwork that depicted consensual sex in any form. Allegedly he got banned from that group after one of the mods found out he was a rapist, who raped his girlfriend multiple times, and even got the police involved.

    • village604@adultswim.fanEnglish
      1·
      20 days ago

      My ex left me because I wouldn’t rape her, so she found someone who would.

      And she wasn’t doing the whole, “revisit your trauma in a situation where you have control,” thing. She was never abused, and didn’t even want there to be a safe word.

      • Joelk111@lemmy.world
        2·
        20 days ago

        Not having a safe word is maybe over the line but I feel like in general that’s just a case of indulging in a partner’s fetishes/fantasies. It isn’t really rape if both of you consented before hand, it’s just role play. That said, I’d probably also want to meet somewhere in the middle, I’d have a hard time continuing if I was being asked to stop, even if consent had previously been given.

      • Gaja0@lemmy.zip
        0·
        20 days ago

        Pretty sure somewhere on the internet I read that this was a super common fantasy, but I don’t want to do the research to confirm. There’s probably nuance to it, but it’s definitely uncomfortable to consider.

    • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world
      1·
      20 days ago

      In Hungary, Fidesz tried to smear Péter Magyar with sex controversies, all they could dig up is a sextape of him having consensual sex with the girlfriend who was with him at the time. It drew a lot of criticism even from Fidesz supporters, even helped to make some disillusioned with the party.