i mean that seems entirely like you do not have the same goals. you want the 3rd person (the man) to work, while the other woman (cis woman) wants to retain her workplace by pushing out competition. the workplace being “to be a woman in society”. a societal role is kinda like a workplace. and since transfem women are such efficient competition (many transfems i know are just outright more attractive than cis women, which i suspect is because they know what looks good from a male perspective?) the other woman is especially worried about being out-competed.
i mean that seems entirely like you do not have the same goals. you want the 3rd person (the man) to work, while the other woman (cis woman) wants to retain her workplace by pushing out competition. the workplace being “to be a woman in society”. a societal role is kinda like a workplace. and since transfem women are such efficient competition (many transfems i know are just outright more attractive than cis women, which i suspect is because they know what looks good from a male perspective?) the other woman is especially worried about being out-competed.