• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    or you just stop looking because you are sick of all the miserable bullshit and you just want to enjoy your life without other people’s miserable bullshit weirdo nonsense in it.

    and you’re shocked that… you feel really good most days instead of feeling like shit most days… almost as of how other people treat you has a huge impact on your mental health and cutting out people who treat you poorly makes you feel a lot better about life.

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      3 months ago

      I mean yea that’s also an option. Being happy alone should always come before being happy with someone else, if at all.

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        3 months ago

        This could be a good strategy to find someone too. People are more attractive when they feel good about themselves.

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          3 months ago

          Typically for a man at least, if you aren’t active looking, you’re never going to find anyone. Feeling good about yourself isn’t going to attract people… being attractive and approaching them is really what you have to do.

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            3 months ago

            Typically yea but sometimes you get lucky and can have a woman ask you out. Usually only happens when they notice other women are interested in you and really don’t wanna miss their shot. In my experience, when you’re happy, kind and not looking, they’ll find you, and fast

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              3 months ago

              Cool my experience has been the oppsite. The more miserable I was the more they were into me, the happier I was, the more they found me unattractive.

              I did awesome with women when I was depressed, drinking a lot, and broke as shit. I had multiple women chasing me all the time and confessing their love for me.

              Now that I am in much better place, I’m basically invisible except to these really high-strung business women I want nothing to do with because their entire life is complaining about how broke they are even though they are wealthy, who basically cry themselves into a bottle of wine every night because they can’t find a billionaire to date them and think anyone making less than 300K a year is living in poverty.