I have a huge crush on this guy. He’s one of the closest new friends I’ve made since moving abroad. Last night, sometime after midnight, I was bored and couldn’t sleep, so I called him. He was asleep when he picked up. I asked if he wanted to come over, and surprisingly, he said yes.
We played Baldur’s Gate 3, watched YouTube, listened to music, snacked, and chatted until 5 a.m. Poor guy couldn’t even stay over and had stuff to do early in the morning, so he barely got any sleep. I was honestly impressed by how willing he was to spend the night with me.
Would it be safe to assume that he likes me too?
Definitely. And that he came over and didn’t pressure you into something as his reward is a massive green flag.
His reward was feeling nice for being requested as a partner in need.
I’d feel nice if somebody for once called me to chill around.
My current ratio is (sadly) >50:1 with my friend (we are both on the spectrum so I won’t throw shade but it’s still upsetting me a bit.
(And yes, I already communicated my problem with it)
God, that’s a depressingly low bar.