My friend’s on reddit a lot, uses it for support questions and reviews mostly, but got fed up with the bullshit toxicity there.
A few days ago I suggested she check out Lemmy, there’s less content, but generally fewer toxic communities and we scrolled a bit.
She checked it out, didn’t understand a meme on WomensStuff, had me ask them about it, and was so put off by their responses that was the end of lemmy for her.
Oh absolutely, I didn’t catch any women’s stuff in OP’s post.
I do realise though that even though I’m a guy I’ve sent 3 women to the fediverse and 0 guys. I think it’s because the women with whom I’m friends share more memes etc whereas the only memes from my guy buddies are in our fantasy hockey chat, and the fediverse is pretty bad for sports.