He won’t take cash, that’s why. Just the kind of guy he is. He’s gonna be taking care of my cat for a week while I’m on vacation.

Thought about a couple cases of his favorite beer. Still might do that. Any other ideas?

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    Thought about a couple cases of his favorite beer. Still might do that. Any other ideas?

    Consumables that the person already likes make great gifts, since they will get used up and not sit around.

    I usually avoid abusable substances, just in case the person has a carefully balanced relationship with that substance.

    But you know your friend.

    Sometimes I just ask first. No real reason this needs to be a surprise.

    “I know you said you won’t take cash, but I’m going to grab you two cases of X as a thank you, on my way back.”

    Then they get a chance to call me off, or redirect me if it would be a problem.

    And I’ll always let them call it off with even a mild “no thanks”, since they might not want to say to me “I have a real problem with X and I can’t safely have thay much on hand.”.

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    I am the kind of guy who doesn’t take cash either. I do shit like that for my neighborhood to build community.

    Be a good neighbor, keep your mess out of his life and reciprocate if he asks for help.

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    One of the best things I have learned to do as a way to influence people and make friends is making cookies.

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    Well, the neighbor might not accept a gift from you…but will he accept a small token and a card from the cat?

    If his personality fits that vibe, then that’s what I would do: Make a thank you card from the cat, signed and everything. Go all out with construction paper and crayons, possibly make it multiple pages if not a small pamphlet. (Cats are very thorough)

    The time spent will show him your intended appreciation.

    Then if you still want to get a gift to go with it (totally valid, i would!) you will want to get him some nice version of something he loves: bottle of booze, some fancy chocolates, whatever. Stalk his social media or ask his partner if he has one, to get ideas of what he’s in to.

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    If you think think alcohol is his thing, then I’d get him a nice bottle of scotch over a larger amount of something cheaper. He’ll remember the best scotch he’s ever had for a long time, while just more beer is going to be forgotten.

    If he objects to you purchasing items for him - and that I understand - I highly recommend a home baked item, personally decorated to celebrate his time taking care of your beloved cat. I’m betting he’ll like your appreciation more than the value of a gift, and that’s a delicious way to show it.

    If he is the kind of person who send pictures of him and your cat while youre away, have a small one printed and framed and gift it to him with a hand written thank you.

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    Consumable souvenir from wherever you’re going is an obvious choice. If you’re any good at cooking/baking, something homemade is also a good choice (and much harder for him to turn down).

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    This summer we let the neighbors park in our driveway since there is currently construction on our street. They’ve dropped off brownies, cupcakes, and a freshly rolled joint as thank you. And if you’re wondering, they were just regular brownies and cupcakes.

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    In my case it would be easy because I like to make stuff to give to friends and family from time to time, like a loafs of bread, jams or tote bags made with good fabric.
    Is there something you do well that he would appreciate?

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    If people can’t, or don’t enjoy receiving money as gift, I always recommend giving people experiences.

    Do something for them that they can’t, won’t, or don’t even know about doing.

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    I once heard a story about a video editor who wouldn’t take money, so the guy who ran the YouTube channel (black pants legion) sent him cases of cured meats until he accepted the money instead.

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    I vote beer. Or baked goods if they dont have any allergies because nothing is worse then getting a box of delicious looking cookies filled with nuts that’ll kill you.