The fix for that is also how you make the relationship work. Communication. Ask if you’re too clingy, or how much is too much, or what he’d rather have. Tell him what works for you. Find a compromise if there’s some conflict, and often that compromise doesn’t mean neither of you get what you want, just not as much.
You might find that he loves the clinging, he just doesn’t know how to show he does so it seems like he’s bothered or annoyed. Ask.
Okay? Not sure where this idea that I don’t communicate with my partner came from; especially with the “you might find he loves the clinging” thing. I mean I specifically commented on a post about someone expressing the enjoyment of clinginess saying my fiance is like that too, which implies that I already know he likes it, because you know… we communicate 🙃
I just have anxiety and struggle with worrying over things a lot, even if I know what im doing is correct, or enjoyed.
I just can’t read well sometimes and somehow skimmed the first part, that makes sense. I just got the impression you weren’t sure. Be clingy, you’re fortunate to be matched up with someone who enjoys it too.
The fix for that is also how you make the relationship work. Communication. Ask if you’re too clingy, or how much is too much, or what he’d rather have. Tell him what works for you. Find a compromise if there’s some conflict, and often that compromise doesn’t mean neither of you get what you want, just not as much.
You might find that he loves the clinging, he just doesn’t know how to show he does so it seems like he’s bothered or annoyed. Ask.
Okay? Not sure where this idea that I don’t communicate with my partner came from; especially with the “you might find he loves the clinging” thing. I mean I specifically commented on a post about someone expressing the enjoyment of clinginess saying my fiance is like that too, which implies that I already know he likes it, because you know… we communicate 🙃
I just have anxiety and struggle with worrying over things a lot, even if I know what im doing is correct, or enjoyed.
I just can’t read well sometimes and somehow skimmed the first part, that makes sense. I just got the impression you weren’t sure. Be clingy, you’re fortunate to be matched up with someone who enjoys it too.
I’ve definitely had moments like that too lol… missing some words can totally change the meaning of the sentence :3