These two words are typically used interchangeably. So, curious to hear how/if you differentiate them. Also, just a general thread about kinks you have, why you think you have them and if you’d consider yourself “kinky”.
These two words are typically used interchangeably. So, curious to hear how/if you differentiate them. Also, just a general thread about kinks you have, why you think you have them and if you’d consider yourself “kinky”.
I dunno, as a chubby disabled guy with very low body positivity about myself, if someone wants to shower me with desire and positivity, and they get their freak on while doing it, I’d be down to give it a shot. And I’m a switch/service top so being objectified doesn’t seem to be a bad thing…
I’m trans so the first thing I think of is trans chasers. They have a reputation for being violent, like after post-nut clarity hits, or they find out the woman they’re chasing is post-op or wants surgery. Their objectification and sexualization is nonconsensual and I doubt you’d get aftercare from them either.
If you have a kink of being objectified, find someone who actually cares about you as a person and is willing to do so consensually. Do you really want to be treated like a blow up doll 24/7/365? (I just finished watching a playthrough of the new hellraiser game, even though it’s just a game, I’m now thinking there genuinely are people who’d love that.)
Oof, that’s unfortunate x_x I don’t understand why someone would want to get physical with a potential partner without knowing details like that, or having some kind of internal struggle with themselves that masks the symptoms. I’m cis + gay but I guess I can benefit from being shy/timid and demi, as I haven’t had such an experience.
For those that I catch feelings for though, I don’t mind a needy partner to ‘use’ me, often. Ofc I want typical relationship things too (I get super clingy and attached, and I need validation often because of the whole disabled + self-image situation), but having dated a couple really needy guys, it doesn’t bother me. Although there’s not many kinks that I’m not into, so things never really get typical or boring, so that helps keep things exciting.