These two words are typically used interchangeably. So, curious to hear how/if you differentiate them. Also, just a general thread about kinks you have, why you think you have them and if you’d consider yourself “kinky”.

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    A fetish is something you NEED in order to get off or enjoy sex. So a guy who can’t get it up unless the lady is wearing lingerie (or unless he is) that’s a lingerie fetish.

    If you enjoy sex more with lingerie but can still enjoy without it, that’s a lingerie kink.