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Cake day: September 27th, 2026

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  • Victim blaming. I have seen it happening.

    SA warning

    It was “but they were both on drugs” and “but they were in a relationship”.
    Often from women.

    Then there’s the cherrypicking; one allegation was rape, the other that the guy was grooming her because he was much older than her. People got hung up on the age difference as something that shouldn’t be an issue, and ignored the much bigger issue: “what, now I can’t try to pick up young women anymore? You’re creating an athmosphere of fear and prosecution!” - No dipshit, you just can’t rape them.
    The same applies to the person who stands with the victim (that was me): “but I’ve seen you flirting with younger women too! Don’t be so sanctimonious!”

    Frankly, just trying to support her was a horrible experience. Can’t imagine how it must have felt for her. So brave to come forward.
    But I wouldn’t miss this experience for the world.
    I hope you’re doing OK.


















  • Yes, we want to know how the sausage is made, just like with all FOSS.

    what does the community actually expect from devs

    Don’t flood the zone.

    It really isn’t so long ago when making an app required various stages of completion and testing, usually including other people. I expect from devs that they follow that well-established road and stop with the silly “who has the time” argument I’m hearing so often lately. Sorry, you didn’t actually say that.

    Not sure why we should be interested in the Polish though. Are you from there?