• flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz
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    2 days ago

    I’m expecting most answers to be about how to recognize bad people, but here is one if your friends are good decent individuals:

    When you fantasize about doing activities with friends, you know none of your current group would vibe with that.

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      12 hours ago

      This was/is me with the friends I made back in school except two of them.

      All except two of them would rather stay inside playing games than do anything that requires the slightest amount of planning.

      So I just do stuff like that with the two.

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        2 days ago

        Well “need new friends” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “need to replace your old friends,” even though it’s often interpreted as such. Sometimes you just need more friends than you currently have, even if the ones you have are good ones.

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        2 days ago

        Well, obviously, you don’t just ghost your old group, but you shouldn’t be surprised if you drift away from them, either.