Only one way out. You have to, and this absolutely paramount, get the boyfriend to fuck you.

i had a girlfriend who did shit like this. it was like her kink or something to try and make me jealous and angry. she used to get so angry because it never worked because I’m not the jealous type at all. I even let her go on dates with other dudes, but only if i i could go out with other girls. (fair is fair!) the 2nd date i went on she lost it and called it off, because her dates with dudes were not making me jealous but my dates with girls were making her extremely jealous.

she was a terrible person, yes. and a liar. but god damn was she a freak in the sack and she was the only woman i ever dated who didn’t hate me for having hobbies or woman friends. I just wish she had no been a nutcase, emotionally. i would have married her had she not been so massively insecure and weird.

Ooouugghhh, this has just brought back a memory so well hidden I don’t think I ever recalled it in the past 15 years or so.

It happened when I was around 11 or so. A girl I found super pretty was flirting with me, it was super weird to me because she was very popular and obviously a part of a pack that would quite literally bully me from time to time.

Well eventually I fell in love and asked if she wants to be my girlfriend. Turned out she was just playing on my emotions just to shame me and break my heart.

This is truly some of the most vile and damaging form of bullying I can imagine.